Hair inspiration

I've been thinking a lot recently about how to wear my hair on the big day. FI likes it down and I was trying to take that into consideration, except for the fact that my hair is naturally hella straight and it's a pain in the butt to get it to do anything. I've worn it down and curly for a couple of special occasions and it always falls flat after a couple of hours no matter how much Aquanet the stylist uses. I don't want my hair to look limp and bedhead-like when I go walking down the aisle, and I'm afraid that if I get it done early enough for pictures and such by the time we go to the reception it's going to look like crap. So I think I'm going to just wear it up for the wedding so I don't have to worry about it (since I'll have enough things to worry about the day of anyway) and wear it down for our TTD photo shoot. That way I'll have a couple different looks in our album (and FI gets to see me in THE dress with my hair down like he likes) but I'll rock a no-fuss style on my wedding day. I've saved a couple pics to my computer that I'm going to show my stylist...who by the way I haven't picked yet since I'm not a regular anywhere. I want something romantic and relaxed, not princess-like or perfectly coifed. I was thinking loose, tousled waves/curls with a little pouf on the top for volume. I don't want it to look like those Bump-its infomercials though lol I'm open to anything that looks good on me personally, so I'm just taking these pics in as inspiration and not a guideline, but it is important that I have my veil underneath my updo rather than over it. I don't see the point in paying to get your hair done if you're just going to cover it up! Here's some updo pics I've found that I'm loving right now.